“You’re triggered because you were abused growing up” – Bovi
Nigerian comedian, Bovi has replied his followers who concluded that his 8-year-old baby girl, Elena Ugboma is unmannered.
Bovi posted a video displaying his daughter in their living room watching a movie, while her mom and brothers were cooking in the kitchen.
In the video, the comedian is heard informing his daughter that she cannot cook but her brother can, and the little girl reminded him that he also cannot cook.
Some people dropped comments to say that Elena is impolite.
Bovi then posted an update to the video.
He wrote in reaction to the attackers: ” I have read all the comments and I’m convinced people see what they want to see.
“To those who found it lighthearted, you can tell there’s emotional equilibrium in their lives. They could see that speaking freely doesn’t necessarily mean indiscipline. And we were basically on cruise.
“As for those who were alarmed, check well, we were raised to think confident use of words amounts to being rude. That’s why in some places, a younger person asking an older person “how are you” or “how nau” is regarded as being rude. Cheer up.
“You’re triggered because you were abused growing up and you have mistaken being outspoken for being rude. That’s not to say kids can’t be rude. But in this scenario, she wasn’t being rude. Cheer up!”
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Some comments on the post;
@healthertainer said;
“She is confident. She isoutspoken. Assertive. She says wait she isthinking in the clearest way possible withoutany undertones. Those saying she isdisrespectful or rude dont see how sheresponds to your every command immediatelywithout any resistance. No. But irs what she isnot doing or saying that they are seeing. Theyare just projecting. Everyone should raise theirchildren however they deem feet. Elena iseverything I would want my future child to be.You have raised a beautiful girl, Abovi and youshould be proud.”
@mesdiwee “Who is she referring as the samewoman?”
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